Updated: Jan 21
Why and how do you mistreat someone or just ignore them and their emotions when they have been there for you repeatedly. so many times. Maybe they truly don't know they are hurting you with that or don't know how to be there for you. Let me tell you, oh boy can that mess with a friendship though when they don't show work back or even just try to be there for someone when they have given so much even just mentally. Especially when they really need that. I just can't understand how you can watch someone do so much for you and not recipericate when they need it. But I am not them and sometimes you think you know someone but you never really can. Truly.
I have so many people who always remind me how I need to stop going above and beyond and avoid the people who seem unappreciative. It always reminds me how I am the best at making excuses for them. Well my dad and boyfriend usually remind me. But I am learning. Slowly but surely. But I guess even though i am not there yet i would just say, give as much as you can but just don't expect or be disappointed when you don't get it back.
I know it doesn't seem fair, but they never told you they would be when they needed you. Nor should we expect that when helping someone. But you can always remember who was and how people react after you do help them.
OKAY WOW... I am so serious that this happened.
I Just recently received a huge sign.....
"stay soft" Such a random occurrence. It just means something. I just came across this photo that is above while I was taking a few minutes between writing this. It is just baffling to me. I took a break from writing this blog and just came across this on instagram...
We can never be sure if what we think is a sign but it definitely feels like one. What do you do though when you already feel like giving up on people even when you know you shouldn't?
MyDNA has been raised and made to want to be there for people. I want to be understanding of what they have and are going through and that's what can be beautiful or or a mess. I don't want to get harder but it isn't a choice and I wish I could help it, but I just am giving up on people in general. People are just different from me too and that's something I need to realize.